{"id":420,"date":"2020-04-02T08:06:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T08:06:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/?p=420"},"modified":"2025-11-25T12:45:31","modified_gmt":"2025-11-25T12:45:31","slug":"a-safe-distance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/2020\/04\/02\/a-safe-distance\/","title":{"rendered":"A safe distance"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>31 March 2020<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"599\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mascherina-protettiva-599x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-410\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mascherina-protettiva-599x1024.jpg 599w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mascherina-protettiva-175x300.jpg 175w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mascherina-protettiva-768x1313.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mascherina-protettiva-898x1536.jpg 898w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mascherina-protettiva.jpg 1081w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 599px) 100vw, 599px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When a social welfare state doesn\u2019t seem like such a bad idea: when the <em>Protezione Civile<\/em> delivers a washable, protective face mask to your post box\u2014gratis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you live in a country that prioritizes quality of life: a) when a nearby wine cooperative is making home deliveries.&nbsp; My husband ordered two demijohns of table wine\u2014one each of Dolcetto and Barbera\u2014to bottle in our cantina.&nbsp; b) When the <em>mercato contadino<\/em> goes online to make locally grown fruit and vegetables available by home delivery; we got our first order today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1 April<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Online news this morning includes a Bloomberg report of promising statistics: Italy\u2019s rate of new virus patients seems to be slowing after three full weeks of a country-wide order to stay at home; they\u2019re calling it a plateau.&nbsp; The Jakarta Post, on the other hand, quotes an Italian epidemiologist who worries the whole strategy of isolating at home, sometimes in multi-generational households, is contributing to the spread of new cases.&nbsp; The numbers see-saw: down, then up again; it\u2019s hard to know what to think, what to feel&#8211;hope, despair, resignation.&nbsp; Clearly the virus is not yet finished with us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The Italian government plans to distribute direct financial aid to address growing frustration among unemployed workers in Palermo and other parts of the south, and extends the policy of self-isolation through Easter and possibly through early May.&nbsp; An Italian political scientist on Euronews Tonight believes the true number of infected may be close to two million, not the 110, 574 estimated by the <em>Protezione Civile<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;A rise in new infections in parts of Asia that seemed to have the contagion under control is being met with tighter travel restrictions and quarantine rules, as well as electronic monitoring of individuals\u2019 movements and contacts.&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msn.com\/en-us\/news\/world\/why-asias-new-coronavirus-controls-should-worry-the-world\/ar-BB11XSdu?ocid=se\">http:\/\/www.msn.com\/en-us\/news\/world\/why-asias-new-coronavirus-controls-should-worry-the-world\/ar-BB11XSdu?ocid=se<\/a>&nbsp; A friend in Israel writes that his phone can tell him when he\u2019s been in contact with someone who\u2019s been diagnosed with the virus, but also can report him to authorities should he move more than 100 meters from home. &nbsp;This is chilling information.&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2 April<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"894\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/fireside-project-1-apr-2020-3-894x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-415\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/fireside-project-1-apr-2020-3-894x1024.jpg 894w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/fireside-project-1-apr-2020-3-262x300.jpg 262w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/fireside-project-1-apr-2020-3-768x880.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/fireside-project-1-apr-2020-3.jpg 1321w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 894px) 100vw, 894px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our quarantine period ends tonight. &nbsp;Tomorrow morning I plan to make a trip to Ipercoop, the big hyper-market in the shopping mall.&nbsp; There I can buy everything from food, cleaning products, and toiletries to printer paper to an electric razor so we might trim my husband\u2019s ever-shaggier hair.&nbsp; There\u2019s no hope for mine until my favorite salon re-opens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don\u2019t mind saying I\u2019m a bit nervous about leaving the house after two weeks of confinement, but I will go masked and gloved, armed with hand sanitizer and wipes.&nbsp; I\u2019ll go early with a detailed list, divided by product category so I can get through the aisles and out again quickly.&nbsp; In the checkout line I will observe the <em>distanza di sicurezza<\/em>\u2014the safe distance of two meters between persons.&nbsp; I\u2019ll buy some extra groceries\u2014pasta, rice, oil, canned tuna\u2014to contribute to one of the informal food banks springing up all over Italy, points where one may deposit a few items for anyone who might need a bit of help right now to feed themselves and their families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"821\" data-id=\"416\" src=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/our-house-1-apr-2020-3-1024x821.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-416\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/our-house-1-apr-2020-3-1024x821.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/our-house-1-apr-2020-3-300x241.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/our-house-1-apr-2020-3-768x616.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/our-house-1-apr-2020-3-1536x1232.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/our-house-1-apr-2020-3.jpg 1579w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"942\" data-id=\"418\" src=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wood-violets-1-apr-2020-3-1024x942.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-418\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wood-violets-1-apr-2020-3-1024x942.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wood-violets-1-apr-2020-3-300x276.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wood-violets-1-apr-2020-3-768x707.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wood-violets-1-apr-2020-3.jpg 1474w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Early spring weather is another up-and-down affair\u2014two days of warm temperatures, sun and clear skies; four of chilly damp, heavy overcast, intermittent rain.&nbsp; We bound outdoors on the fair days, stay close to our fireside on the foul ones.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"563\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wildflower-posie-1-apr-2020-3-563x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-417\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wildflower-posie-1-apr-2020-3-563x1024.jpg 563w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wildflower-posie-1-apr-2020-3-165x300.jpg 165w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wildflower-posie-1-apr-2020-3-768x1397.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wildflower-posie-1-apr-2020-3-844x1536.jpg 844w, https:\/\/ouritalianfarmhouse.com\/ourstory\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/wildflower-posie-1-apr-2020-3.jpg 1048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 563px) 100vw, 563px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yesterday after lunch the sun came out; we bundled up against the north-easterly wind, jumped the little watercourse at the bottom of the meadow and walked into the woods.&nbsp; We climbed an old road bed, saw our house from a new vantage point.&nbsp; I picked a small bunch of the wild violets pushing up everywhere through a thick mat of fallen chestnut leaves.&nbsp; Back on our terrace, facing west and sheltered from the wind, we drank tea until the light faded.&nbsp; In these moments we hold the sad news, the staggering numbers, the whole frightened world at a safe distance.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>You have traveled too fast over false ground;<br>Now your soul has come, to take you back.<br>Take refuge in your senses, open up<br>To all the small miracles you rushed through.<br>Become inclined to watch the way of rain<br>When it falls slow and free.<br>Imitate the habit of twilight,<br>Taking time to open the well of color<br>That fostered the brightness of day.<br>Draw alongside the silence of stone<br>Until its calmness can claim you.<br>Be excessively gentle with yourself.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">JOHN O&#8217;DONOHUE<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>31 March 2020 When a social welfare state doesn\u2019t seem like such a bad idea: when the Protezione Civile delivers a washable, protective face mask to your post box\u2014gratis. 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